As followers of Christ we feel an inherent need to please Christ. After all if we did not feel this need then we would probably need to reconsider whether or not we are truly followers of Him.
At the core, pleasing Christ comes through our decision making. If we are pleasing Christ with out decisions then we are not sinning and we are enacting life change in ourselves and others.
So how do we begin in seeking Christ in our decision making? We must first be willing to abandon ourselves to those decisions that Christ has planned for us. Then we must listen for those plans. This is where the prayer and supplication comes into action. God guides our decisions through other means of communication with Him, however if we are not grounded in prayer then we will question whether we are doing what we want or what Christ wants.
You may sit back and think, Christ making decisions for me; that's crazy. However I can tell you from first hand experience as well as second hand stories that following Christ direction is a real thing. Not only can his confirmation of decisions come through prayer, it can also come through scripture, worship, communication with other believers, and communication with nonbelievers as well.
I say all of this knowing full well that this is something that I myself need to work on. Most of the time when I blog about things, they are thoughts that apply to myself, and I feel the need to share.